Mindful Steps to SuccessBy Personal Life Coach Brook Montagna, M.S., Personal and Professional Coaching Date: 04/08/2007
Do you have clear goals? Ones that originate from
your spirit? Are you wondering how to achieve your goals? As a life coach, I
have found that good, solid plans, and a foundation of trust and confidence will
help you create success. I have also found that mindful attention to your inner
guidance and spiritual well being are important so that you enjoy the
journey.
Here are 10 steps to set and achieve meaningful goals, balance, and greater
joy. These “Mindful Steps to Success” can be used over and over, whenever it's
time to chart your course again.
Mindful Steps to Success
1- Clear the decks. It is important to release negative energy caught
up in past events. Say goodbye to past mistakes, frustrations, or
disappointments and keep your focus on now. In order to reach new goals, you
will need all the positive energy you can muster!
2- Create a Vision. A vision for your life is like a magnet pulling
you forward. A clear and meaningful vision that comes from your spirit is
essential to staying motivated and focused. This is your dream, purpose, and
mission you know you want to live. It is important to be able to see it, feel
it, taste it and know it is possible for you. Write it, draw it, collage it,
sing it, whatever keeps it alive!
3- Prioritize. From your vision, decide what aspects are most
important. For example: If your vision includes several new business projects,
create a priority list starting with the project that you are most passionate
about.
4- Set definite goals. Achievable goals are reasonable and specific.
They are written down, and specify what, when, and how. Create deadlines,
detailed steps, visible reminders, daily reviews, and consistent action. This
takes time, but it’s critical to getting the results you want. Remember the
carpenter's rule for increasing effectiveness, "Measure twice. Cut once".
5- Commit. What does commitment to your goals mean to you? Do you
think of drudgery, or excitement? Success over the long term stems from a
commitment that is grounded in passion and your spiritual truth. Read your
vision every day to keep the excitement fresh.
6- Create a Foundation for Success. Increase your chances for success
by including a plan for each of the following:
- Mind Management - Take charge of your thinking. Negative thinking is like
an anchor when you are trying to move forward into new territory. Write out
positive, confident beliefs and thoughts that you will entertain for your
success, and read them frequently.
- Time Management – Schedule your time for effectiveness, and be accountable
to the actions you have planned. Don't over commit, and curb your time
wasters. Use a calendar!
- Emotion Management – What helps you get back on track when you experience
disappointment, discouragement, or doubt? Set up a support system of friends,
peers, service providers, and a good self care program so that you bounce back
quickly. Be sure to include fun and humor as part of the process in reaching
your goals.
- Environment management – How will you handle all the distractions? The
phone calls, e-mail, noise, too many ideas in your own mind? It pays to
address each potential distraction with concrete action. For example, if you
find that responding to e-mail is a time thief and reduces your productivity,
select a reasonable amount of time to respond to e-mail, schedule it, and
stick to it!
- Gremlin management – Gremlins are everything else within your own make up,
the patterns and behaviors that get in the way of your success.
Procrastination is one of the most familiar to all of us. With mindfulness and
conscious attention to your thinking and actions, you can change old habits.
If you need help making a change, try coaching. Don’t let anything stop
you!
7- Take action. Each goal can be broken down into small steps. Think
about each long term goal and “rewind the tape” in your mind. How did you get
there? What steps did you take? Write down the steps, put them on your calendar
in such a way that each task can reasonably be accomplished.
8- Evaluate and Revise. This is very important! Schedule a review
session each week where you look at your results so that you may:
- Learn from mistakes
- Celebrate successes (no matter how small)
- Revise plans if needed
9- Confidence. Who or what will you call on to remind you of your
greatness and your ability to reach your goals? Support Group? Inspirational
Books? Friends? Peers? Life Coach? Be prepared to use these resources. Create
and implement spiritual practices every day that keep you centered and connected
to your inner truth.
10- Repeat. Use the Steps to Success process whenever you set a new
goal.
These steps are intended as a guide. Each one has many facets and skill sets
to learn. Mindful Life Coaching can help you master these
skills.
For more help with patterns of procrastination and to be empowered for personal, professional, and financial success, contact Brook Montagna, M.S., Professional Coach call, 951-776-2844, or email at brook@mindfullifecoach.com.
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Brook Montagna, Life Coach
Coaching Individuals, Couples, and Groups
for Excellence in Life and Business
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